Hi guys, I knew yesterday was different, I did things that I have never done in a long time. I went shopping, THE SHOPPING. I go in a fashion shop, pick some clothes I fancy, go in a fitting room, try them out, and actually bought them. Unbelievable, right? Previously, the course of events were much complicated. I think over what I'm buying, 5 times, I go in 5 different fashion shop, finally pick some clothes I think "is OKAY", go in a fitting room and get out in 10 mins without even being able to remember what I wore, and put them back on the shelves. 5 times. I always ended up home empty handed. The feeling is weird, do I enjoy it? I can't say I'm.
What was so different this time? I think because I spent less time answering questions inside me and more time asking them. When I went to shopping previously, I only had myself to consult opinions, I was limited to what I knew then. I wasn't going anywhere. This time I actually had shop clerks to help me with my questions, they work in the shop and know their products a lot better than me. Which it was proven to be true.
Why didn't I do it until now? Very simple, because I didn't trust them, I thought that I would not want to bother asking questions if the answer I get is bias. But I was quite wrong. Since when answer weren't bias? The only time they weren't was probably when you and your twin sibling asked your mum which of you draw better. So I know answers were almost always bias. What could I do with them if I want my questions to be answered by a different person other then myself? I get answers from others, and then I filter them myself. That was like hitting 2 tigers with 1 stone (not like you should ever do that). My questions were answered, and I spent less time getting them.
So you should always ask questions, 1 more question you ask is 1 hours less thinking you do.
"A person looks stupid for 30 seconds when he asks a question, and lifetime if he doesn't."
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