Healing is a matter of time, but it is sometimes also a matter of opportunity.

When people get busy, they ask for some free time. And they spend them on sleep, fun, and all those unnecessary stuffs. Human just will never be satisfied. By nature, they are a hard to please animal. They often leave behind what is important to them, and eventually forget it. What I have learned is that, since there are so many paths you can choose to lead your life, choose the one that make you feel most happy. Don't get scared that you might choose the wrong one as since right and wrong are relative, it there is not comparison, there is no right or wrong. I thought you might have figured out that most of the time comparison is what makes you unhappy.

My two cents: do not compare, without it, there is no stress, no competition, no potential hatred, and thus no unhappiness.